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1.) The LC Display is working with a backlight. That means you won't have a real black ground; it's more a little shiny green-grey.
The OLED Display has no backlight. Only the necessary pixels will light up and you have a really dark black ground. The contrast and angle of view is much better.
2.) The PnC inline-sensor is designed to plug it into an PnC connector. You could use
this adapter but it will only work with PUR tubing or any other stiff tubing.
If you own a aquatube it would be very easy: just order a normal PnC connector.
3.) There are two ways for shutting down the system: via PSU or the power switch of your mainboard.
For both methods you need will need
this relais plug.
If you want to use the PSU method you need the
aquaero power connect ATX-Standby-Adapter 70 cm.
It has an extended green power good cable. You split it up and connect the ends to your relais plug. When the aquaero wants to shut off the system it will disrupt the line and the PSU is shut down immediately.
The other method with the power switch requies no additional accessory but you will have to tinker a bit
It should look like that at the end:
If the aquaero wants to shut off the system it will "press" the power button and the computer will go off after around 2 seconds - like you would press and hold the power button by hand.
You can get the plexiglas for your aquatube if you order it via the comment field at the end of your order, afaik it will cost 4 euro.