I have had a somewhat similar occurrence of the D5 NEXT Ultitube combo leaking, and the leaked coolant also made it into the controller (which luckily lived to see another day

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For me the problem seemed to have to do with the way I was mounting the internal filter at the bottom of the ultitube. The filter seems to have an integrated gasket which waterproofs the interface between the ultitube and the plastic piece where you mount the rest of the pump assembly. The filter has an internal "O" shaped guide which guides it centered down into the plastic piece. When I was mounting the ultitube on the plastic interface piece, I was not pushing the filter guide downwards, but just eyeballing that the gasket was in place. I knew that I could push it in by hand, but I initially figured that if the gasket is in place, then the manual pushing is not necessary, and it will settle by itself. It turns out that was not the case. I had the ultitube leak twice in a row (and I can swear the gasket seemed OK, and I tightened it OK). Only when I manually pushed the guide in as far as it went, I could get a tight fit.
I say similar, because by your description it seems to leak through the pump and controller interface somehow (the one you described as tricky to get right)
- I do agree that while for me it worked every time, I am always worried that I apply too much force when pushing it and I end up getting bent pins in the connector because I am never sure they are correctly aligned since I also have to eyeball it...)
- On the other hand both this controller attachment method and the recessed and hard to reach SATA supply make for an overall compact and sexy package... I guess you can't have it all.
Hope this helps