1) No, you cannot use them. The DS1822 is a serial-linked sensor and the aquaero just needs normal 10kO-NTCs

. But why do you wnat to use them? On the maxim page they said +-2°, so it's as good as the "normal" Ae-Sensors.
The other features like logging and temp-alarm are "integrated" in the Ae, so all in all you will have the same features with the Ae :-/.
2) you can change the sensor-offset in the software and in the Ae itself, but normally you won't need them

.
3) The software is beta, but not while it's unstable. The only reason for the beta-state is, that there aren't all features inrtegratet that shoul be (they've 1000s of ideas, an a big oipportunity is, if you have better/more ideas, you can talk to them and if it is a godd idea they will use it

).
Apart from tgat, as Shoggy said there is no choice. When you buy an Ae, there is a 99%-chance, that you get a aquaero with the new firmware on it (depends on your seller), you cannot change to the old firmware and so you cannot use the old firmware, but believe me: You won't want to change, the new software is the biggest step in the aquaero-developement ;D.